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Gypsymuses Joined: 2000-10-31 Posts: 46 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
my wife is actually a marriage family therapist. she told me that at the place she was interning many years ago, they did not allow low cut tops, short skirts, or any shoes or sandals that exposed feet (for obvious reasons to people like us). so during therapy sessions, she dresses very conservative, light make up, pants, covered up tops, no earings either.
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jakamblasi Joined: 2002-12-01 Posts: 203 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I feel what you're saying Intherapy, I feel almost bad that I was one of the people trying to push you to go for it. I'm glad you have your mind set in the right place. You're better than a lot of us here! Patience is a virtue and the way you are going about it might actually pay off way more. I wish you the best.
Seriously though, I can't think of how many times I've "went for it" only to regret it later. And then at the end of the day you realize those urges could've been settled down with the busting of a nut. Sometimes no matter how attractive the feet are, it's not worth the risk, especially in a situation like this. We should all learn from this dude. | ||
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intherapy05 Joined: 2008-07-10 Posts: 114 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
jakamblasi: Thanks for the kind words. It is really tough to sit there looking at those pretty feet. We've discussed my fetish in the past but I am reluctant to bring it up and discuss any further for fear of telling her how nice I think her feet are. That might be an awkward situation. I know things I tell her remain inside the room, but if I make it personal, that might work against me. I need to play it by ear (or foot).
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eliccio Joined: 2005-09-22 Posts: 812 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Here is what I get from this thread. Somebody is in therapy, that part is probably true. He has a crush on his therapist and she has cute feet. That part is true. He took pictures of her feet. That part is probably true.
He claimed he jerked it in her shoes, he took pics, she came in and put her shoes on and left. Bullshit. First of all, the pics of her feet are from a different camera than the ones from her shoes (all of a sudden the pics are a different size, from a different camera and of a different quality) the cumshot is obviously fake and she goes from carpeted floor from to a plywood floor (look at the floor in every foot pic then she magically has a plywood floor where her desk is) and why didn't he snap a pic of her wearing the shoes? You guys really want to live his fantasy don't you. This guy took his mother's shoes, put glue in them and made all you people go nuts with his outrageous story. Say for one second he came in her shoe, that huge fucking load, what women wouldn't put the shoes on and immediately throw them off in disgust? Even with a load a quarter of that size. Wow, you guys bought it hook line and sinker. | ||
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intherapy05 Joined: 2008-07-10 Posts: 114 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wow eliccio, you're some detective! That was pretty good work you did looking at all the pictures and cameras used, etc. Trouble is, you have no idea what you're talking about. I know there are some people on the Pad who don't believe my thread and that is their prerogative. However, before you accuse someone you should have all the facts. Did you read the part in one of my posts where I mentioned the following:
While we keep the same therapist, we sometimes change rooms.If you had you might understand why the floor changes since not all the rooms have the same floor coverings. As far as the camera is concerned, I did change cell phones which might mean my new one has a higher resolution. But hey, you're the detective, what do I know. I'll keep posting when there is something significant to say. You can either read it or not, your choice. Now, on a different note, let's say this is fake (which it's not), why do people like you feel compelled to ruin it for everyone? Do you get some type of masochistic joy pointing out things you believe are untrue? Who asked you to be the moderator for threads you think aren't real? Guys like you piss me off because you think you know better than everyone else and can't wait to voice your opinion so everyone thinks your so smart (when you aren't). The only reason I am annoyed is because I've seen so many threads ruined when some idiot voices his opinion and the poster either gets pissed and no longer posts in the thread or, for that matter, anywhere else. A lot of good people have left the Pad because of jerks like you. Keep up the good work! | ||
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dudu2103 Joined: 2008-08-24 Posts: 33 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Hi intherapy,
Don't let yourself being pissed by that nonsense, as you saw no one react to him... Keep as posted with good news we are waiting for it
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thomasfrend Joined: 2007-08-29 Posts: 20 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
eliccio wrote: I really hate it when people try so hard to disprove something. You know, most of us Padders are well informed, well educated people, and I find it thoroughly offensive that you would think us so stupid and so gullible that we can't discern fact from fiction. Now if had had read each and EVERY post since the post in question, you would find a few the questions that you asked were already explained. O\Instead of trying to look cool and well informed, why don't you stop and think next time what exactly your saying. You don't have to buy his story, and you don't have to post and attempt to discredit anyone, as if you are our savior from fantasy. If you don't belive his accounts, then don't post! It's people like you that really make message boards, and the internet in general, such a God-awful, annoying place. No one really what you have to say, so please take your pseudo-debunking and shove where the sun don't shine. Regards, Tom | ||
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ftftsh Joined: 2006-11-02 Posts: 719 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wow I just read all your posts intherapy05 and I hope you get some foot action from your therapists soon and tell us about it.
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intherapy05 Joined: 2008-07-10 Posts: 114 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
OK, I haven't posted about an actual session in quite some time. Things have been going slowly with my therapist until recently. I went for a session and she had on the shoes you see in the pictures. I have to tell you I was going crazy. I snapped the pictures like I always do when I turn my phone off at the beginning of the session. She's writing at that point and doesn't seem to notice what I'm doing. We spoke for a few minutes about my real issue when, as she was writing, she dropped her pen and bent over to pick it up. When she did that she tried to keep her foot on the floor but the way she reached for the pen caused her foot to cramp up. I saw that unmistakable look of a foot that was cramping, you know if you ever saw one, the tendon that holds up the arch gets very tight and causes the toes to curl upward. Also, the look on her face also told me she was very uncomfortable. She tried to ignore it but the damn cramp wasn't going away. We continued with the session but I could tell she was hurting. After a few minutes she asked if we could stop while she walked it off. I said sure, but now was my chance. I offered to rub it to help alleviate the pain. She thanked me politely, but said no. Then she tried to walk it off to no avail. Seeing her discomfort, I offered again and this time she sat down and extended her foot to me! For what seemed like hours after that we were both quiet. Then she said very quietly "Thank you for offering to help me, I feel much better now." I couldn't hold back anymore. I told her that it was my pleasure holding such a beautiful foot in my hands. She smiled and said "Thank you." I told her that I thought her feet were as nice as any of my girlfriends. She tried not to react, but I could tell she was flattered. I mentioned that, after all, I do have a foot fetish which we've discussed and that I know a pretty foot when I see it. She asked if I were uncomfortable with what had just happened and I said no. I told her that I know it is not a good situation for me to be attracted to my therapist's feet but that in all honesty, if she were not my therapist, I wouldn't mind pleasuring her with a foot massage. Right about the time I said that our session was coming to an end. She thanked me again for helping her and said we could discuss my last statement at our next session
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DarkSilent Joined: 2002-03-29 Posts: 1,261 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Now this is a really nice turn of events.
You are very lucky! She declined maybe because it was uncomfortable for her (or knew it could lead to some other things) and your comments were right on the spot. I think that, depending on what she says next time, you can massage those feet every session... unless she really tells you to stop. I mean, in my opinion, this will lead to an all or nothing situation. Anyway... please keep us updated!!! Best of luck and I hope next time you get a little bit more of a massage. ![]() | ||
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Kidz24 Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 13 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Your really becoming my hero..... but the waiting game is just bad, but it finally paid off.
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NZ Tony Joined: 2007-11-28 Posts: 1,876 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wow that was worth waiting for - those feet look a dream to touch. Tell us what that foot really felt like in that brief time you touched it.
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intherapy05 Joined: 2008-07-10 Posts: 114 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
As I said before, she is a mature lady who takes very good care of her feet. Her soles were very soft and her heels a bit (not too much) rough. My guess is she walks around barefoot most of the time. I was able to go from her toes to her heels maybe three, four times kneading her sole with my thumbs to help with the cramp before she pulled away abruptly. Even so, they felt great!
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NZ Tony Joined: 2007-11-28 Posts: 1,876 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
You lucky thing! Wish I could save these in a format that is usable - they save as progressive jpegs which then won't open in anything I've got.
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dudu2103 Joined: 2008-08-24 Posts: 33 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wow!!
Her toes look delicious , I am sure she was flattered, looking forward to hear how it turns out... Good Luck | ||
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jakamblasi Joined: 2002-12-01 Posts: 203 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wow. I'm so glad you finally got those feet in your hands. But damn it doesn't seem like it's looking too good right now. Hopefully I'm wrong, maybe I'm seeing the glass half empty. I think if you and her met under different circumstances you would have those feet in your mouth in no time. But the fact that she's your therapist seems to be holding her back, which is the correct thing to do. And wow her feet seem to get more and more beautiful with every picture post. Amazing. If I were you I would just go full confession mode about how you feel about her feet next session. Just so you wouldn't have to guess any longer where it's going and then you could move on accordingly.
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superstar Joined: 2005-03-22 Posts: 43 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I must say, even though I enjoy this thread, all of this stuff happening between you and your therapist should be part of the therapy. Any feelings you have towards your therapist, especially erotic, (something called transference) should be part of your therapy, and any attempt on the therapists part to seduce you is countertansference not to mention unethical. If you're improving your life by seeing her that is great, but this sneaky picture taking and sexual feelings you have while massaging her feet...it's just mindboggling that your therapist wouldn't discuss it with you, and its not beneficial to you to not bring it up. But like I said, I enjoy the thread and wish you the best of luck.
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intherapy05 Joined: 2008-07-10 Posts: 114 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
As you can see, I removed her pictures off the Pad. I felt so guilty after my last session that I thought it would be the right thing to do. As far as my next session, we did talk about my statement to her about how I wouldn't mind pleasuring her with a foot massage. She said that it would be totally inappropriate and that she regretted what happened in our last session. She said she was in such discomfort that my offer to help relieve her pain was much appreciated. She occasionally gets cramps but this one was far and away the worst. She did tell me I had a gentle touch and that her foot felt much better afterwards but that it could never happen again.
So, where does that leave me? I'm not sure. As in the beginning I am torn between these beautiful feet and getting help. Now that the cat's out of the bag so to speak, I don't know what to do. I really respect her as a therapist but I get totally distracted by those feet. At this point, I'm going to hold off on any more talk about her feet since the guilt is making me crazy. And that's not even the reason I'm seeing her. Maybe I need to get another therapist to discuss the situation with this therapist?!?!? This stuff is making me crazy. | ||
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Kidz24 Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 13 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Maybe you should talk to her about it.... I mean she is your therapist right?
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jakamblasi Joined: 2002-12-01 Posts: 203 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Damn, this is what I feared. I'm sorry to hear that.
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dollyKde Joined: 2007-10-29 Posts: 15 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
intherapy05 wrote: "I did change cell phones which might mean my new one has a higher resolution. But hey, you're the detective, what do I know." The pics have been taken by 3 different types of camera's. One of which is not a cellphone. - Sony Ericsson Z525 - Sony Ericsson Z750a - Nikon E3200 --> http://img5.travelblog.or...ikon-Coolpix-E3200-0.jpg Guess which pics were taking with the Nikon E3200... Your not telling the whole truth. Period. | ||
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thomasfrend Joined: 2007-08-29 Posts: 20 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Who cares? Stop trying to look smart and just go away. If you don't believe him, then don't fucking post. I don't know your qualifications or your career, but I can tell you right now that there is no way you can tell the exact make and model by looking at each of these photos. And if you honestly spent the time necessary to indeed identify each camera used just to disprove this guy, I truly feel sorry for your life. So, instead of trying to impress people whom you will never meet, choose to not believe him and just shut up. And I still don't understand what makes you think he would care what you think. He did already say if I'm not mistaken that he doesn't care for doubters. And before somebody asks the inevitable "No one elected you as a delegate or lawyer", you don't need to be elected to defend someone from the hordes of morons on the web. No one cares for your magic picture discerning powers, which are most certainly fake or just sad.
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dollyKde Joined: 2007-10-29 Posts: 15 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
You obviously don't care. He doesn't care. But they're are people who might.
Yes I agree it's somewhat sad I took the time to reply to this thread but I guess I did it for the people who *might* care. (that's why i'm replying yet again) As far as knowing which model it was. I confess, I took me in total 24 hours to know which model it was, looking at each picture pixel by pixel. (I hope you sense the sarcasm) Now for the people who do care: I found the post of "eliccio" interesting. Since I know (together with millions of other people) that each picture taken by a digital camera leaves a footprint (=model type & number) on a picture I took the time to find out. (2 sec of hard work if you have the picture) I took one from the beginning of the thread - the end and the presumed "fake" pic. (Just imagine the days of work it took to scroll between the pages) And came to the conclusion that he's indeed spicing up the story for your personal entertainment. (yes I know it's the end of the world) And now I leave this thread for good. | ||
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thomasfrend Joined: 2007-08-29 Posts: 20 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
dollyKde wrote: I love it when people prove my point. | ||
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milanistidevil Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 2 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
to the guy who doesnt believe intertherapy,if u dont like the topic dont enter it fullstop.
to intertherapy,your in a stalemate... | ||
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the master debater Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 11 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
dollyKde wrote:See thats just the thing. Nobody does. This is a foot fetish board you moron. Not a board for you and other douchebags to get on and show off your feigned intelligence to others by killing threads. Nobody cares about your detective skills. In fact, nobody really cares THAT much if a story is fiction thats posted as non fiction. If we believe it, why ruin it? Even if he is lying he's not actually hurting anyone with his lie, quite the opposite, actually, he is ENTERTAINING us which is WHY WE COME HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. There are two types of stories I have seen thus far on the pad: outlandish fiction, which can be really fun, but it's fiction. and, detailed, down to earth, nonfiction. The only thing that nonfiction needs to be is believable, because that's why we prefer it. its hotter because its believable. if someone can make a lie believable, and if all we are looking for is something believable, who cares if its a lie? Give me one good reason why it matters if he's lying (which he probably isnt). | ||
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GogigaGo2 Joined: 2004-04-02 Posts: 89 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
AMEN!
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mzadi Joined: 2003-09-17 Posts: 421 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Ok intherapy, we have not seen her face, nor do we know her name, so please re-post the pics. Even if it is just a fantasy, it's a nice one, so I won't be playing detective.
And last, intherapy, I think you need to minimalize the foot massage, and your fetish. It's not really that big of a deal. I had to come to this realization myself. I harped on it for years, but finally just came to accept that it's a part of who I am, and now I don't deny it, nor fight it. I just accept it, as NORMAL for me! Works great. Just keep boundaries, and don't do things that would hurt others. (i.e. pics of her feet are fine, as long as she remains anonymous.) Are you only interested in her feet? If so, then leave it alone and move on. It's nice and understandable to admire feet, and want them, however most women don't like it when you want only their feet. You can discuss this in therapy if you like, to resolve it, but never let her think it's causing you harm, (unless it is). Work through it with her, and then it can start to lose it's power on you, and you then will be able to start focusing attention where it really belongs...life with pretty feet, that don't elicit uncomfortable feelings from you. | ||
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