cinema2007,

I understand what you're saying (BTW, your English is very good), but even if I did not go back to her as a patient, I could never ask her out for diner or whatever because she is married. I could not do that. If you ask me if I could suck on a woman's toes and lick her soles if she were willing even if married, yes. However, she would have to be willing. And, as many people, including yourself have pointed out, she cannot have a relationship with me because of our prior arrangement.

Tell you one thing, I wish I was her dog Max, then I could have daily access to those very sexy feet. I thought about that after I posted earlier and realized that she allowed her dog to sniff and lick her toes and foot for a solid ten minutes. I've got a feeling she was enjoying that. Sounded to me like Max was! Maybe it brought back old memories when her boyfriend's buddies would do the same thing while she slept.

dudu2103 wrote:

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(it is the second time she share with you stories about her feet being licked) because she knows it makes you crazy and she love it , otherwise she wouldn't have told you that the lucky Max was at her feet for 10 minutes (why should she go into details about the amount of time..) .
My advice to you is go back to the sessions - I believe she would love to have you back as a patient and as an admirer

Ok...but what is the meaning to keep as an admirer ???

We all here have wanked on pictures of feet from the internet and FROM THIS SITE ... thinking "i wish i could do this in real !"

Now he "knows" a woman FOR REAL that is INTO feet thing...and he has to stay AGAIN as an admirer ?? as a fantasies ??? AGAIN ???

Seeing dream girls with great feet on the internet, OK ! we can do nothing but fantasies !

But now, this woman is for real ! So i think it's VERY difficult mentally to think "let's keep as an admirer"...you know, to see everytime her cute feet and to say to yourself that you can't do anything (the same thing you tell yourself when you wank on internet pictures !) is very difficult to do.

I don't know if you understand what i'm trying to say, but it's exactly the same situation when you take your little cousin to the cake maker at the store and you tell him : "just look, don't ask the cake maker to taste !" and the boy says : "but other boys are tasting ! why not me ?" so you'd answer : "it's like that, just admirer...AND WAIT IT WILL COME" (same old sentence i used to hear since i'm 18...now i'm 28 and never had the chance to touch any woman feet by the way)

Writing this message, i feel a little sad...

dudu2103 wrote:

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What I meant is they'll both have a good time.. a good time is not always by touching/worshiping a woman, It can be a result of the game of flirting, and it is possible to flirt with the feet, that is what she is doing to him, talking about her feet, tells him about others licking them, changing shoes in front of him and so on ....

Don't you find it DIFFICULT to think that OTHER men CAN lick the feet of the woman you like ???

>> That was my point !

dudu2103 wrote:

I am sure although he is not fully getting what he wants he enjoys it very much,

OH NO i don't think he enjoys it ! When he's with her, he enjoys this teasing ... but i'm sur that when he gets home, he thinks "my god...what a situation...i can't do anything with her because she's my therapist -or because she's married-"

I tell you this, because that's what i think ! Espacially in my situation (i've NEVER even touched any woman feet)...so it's kind of GREAT frustration to see exciting pictures of women feet on the internet, but it's MORE frustrating to see a woman FOR REAL and saying to yourself : "no i only can be an admirer"

Intherapy....



Congrats.



You officially win the award for BIGGEST FUCKING DUMBASS EVER.



You honestly couldn't control yourself? You couldn't just go home (or into the bathroom) and rub one out? You had to ejaculate into her shoes????!


Wow.


You need help.


LEARN HOW TO CONTROL YOUR GODDAMN URGES.

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along with an added bonus of feet to ogle.

So you think he has to be happy to ONLY ogle at his therapist VERY CUTE feet ???


If every time we meet a woman with great feet we must say to ourselves "i only can ogle and fantasies VIRTUALLY", then we'll never be able to REALISE our fantasy. And in the mean time, OTHER men (that don't ask themselves so much questions as we do) will be ABLE to massage, suck and lick the feet of the women we like !

I think that sometimes it's good to try ... and come on , deontology, is EVERYWHERE ! And the transfer thing too ! It's like a women will make you the meal you like (because she knows what you like) , and you'll like her because of the transfer ??
In any human relation there is some transfer ! That's how we know why we like some people, and why we dislike others ! And when you like a girl, you're not teling yourself "oh no, let's not go further because it's only the transfer !"...otherwise nobody will NEVER meet nobody !

SuperFizzyLizzy,

Hmmm... Guess you didn't read the part where I said I felt like shit and couldn't believe I did what I did. And as far a confidentiality agreement I think that only applies to the therapist, not to me. She would require a release to talk about anything I told her to someone else. The same does not hold true for me. That is why she's licensed and I just a dumb idiot.

Just one question, why are you so upset that I did this to my therapist as opposed to any other lovely young lady?

cinema2007, Sinatrafan99, & dudu2103,

Oddly, you're all correct. I did enjoy seeing her feet every session and I was frustrated that I could not actually have them. I guess what I did was the closest I would come to "having" her feet but that still doesn't make it right and I still don't think I can face her. I am still mulling over the suggestion that I go back, but I haven't made that decision yet. I know the longer I wait the more difficult it will be.

SuperFizzyLizzy wrote:

YES. It's his THERAPIST, for fuck's sake.
He can do all that shit to a nice young gal who ISN'T someone who he has a confidentiality agreement with.

And this nice young gal would be for example his accounter at the bank ! And you guys will says : "NO ! he can't do anything with her 'cause he has a confidentiality agreement with her because she knows how much is his bank account ...which is a confidentiality thing !"

Etc etc for many kind of professions !

If we follow this...nobody would never meet nobody.

Anyway, i'm not explaning clearly what i wanna say...



WHAT?


Ok, you're not from the US and English isn't your first language, so I'm going to take it easy on you.



If he wanted to hit on the cute bank teller or the nice gal that fixes his coffee every morning, there's nothing wrong with that. Hell, some of the best relationships start out like that.


But his THERAPIST? NO!!!!!!

He is her PATIENT. That crosses moral and legal lines.

You jerked off in your therapist shoe, go in front of her and tell her, it's part of your therapy! It's not because you went in therapy, at first, for another reason that your therapy is supposed to be all about one aspect of your life, visibly you need advices in the foot fetish department... It's not like you jerked off in a crazy random girl that would slap you in the face and yell at the entire world about how you're a pathetic human being, we're talking about a therapist, that is, an evolved human being full of knowledge and resources paid by you to be professional, calm and comprehensive, got it? Now man up and continue your therapy like a courageous man and tell us about it if you want to, peace,
Manunderfeet

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dudu2103 wrote:

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SuperFizzyLizzy wrote:

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If he wanted to hit on the cute bank teller or the nice gal that fixes his coffee every morning, there's nothing wrong with that. Hell, some of the best relationships start out like that.


But his THERAPIST? NO!!!!!!

He is her PATIENT. That crosses moral and legal lines.

Hi SuperFizzyLizzy,
I am also not from the US so maybe my moral and legal lines are different than yours.
What I am saying is that if he enjoys it and it doesn't harmful for him (I don't think about foot fetish as a bad thing) in my opinion there is nothing wrong with it.
It isn't that he offended her anyhow (even cumming in her shoes seems to be something she is gladly living with) she still talks with him about her feet, still teasing him with them - I can't see anything wrong if two people are enjoying and no one get hurts.
I believe that if she was mad with him about the last incident she would have confronted him regarding, instead she just led him to more talks about her feet and how much she enjoys the feeling of her feet being licked.
Anyhow as winter is coming close, and the end of the open shoes seasons with it soon it won't be relevant for him...

Yeah, your moral compass is waaaaay off.


It doesn't work like that. And I'm beginning to think that no one understands that because they're thinking their "other" brain.

I haven't been paying much attention to this whole conversation, but I'm just gonna take a guess that you meant we're all thinking with our other "head"

'Cuz you know... there's the head on top and then theres the head down below that can get a little excited from time to time.

Haha.

Good for you, intherapy. I hope you go through with it.

Thanks Sinatrafan99 and dudu2103 for the encouragement.

One thing, though, is that I'm still not sure that even if she does engage me with talking about my fetish and if she does wear "revealing" shoes that it would be any indicator that she enjoys it. I may have misread the whole situation and probably "hoped" that what I thought or fantasized was, in fact, true.

Either way, I will be getting the help I need with my non-foot fetish related issues and maybe a glance or two at those (still) beautiful feet.

Hey NZ Tony,

I would like to think that there is a relationship that goes beyond "doctor/patient" but to be honest, I'm not sure. It could be that she is one of those women who knows she has sexy feet, doesn't mind the admiration or affection, but that having her sexy feet played with isn't the thing that turns her on like it is for us. I believe the incidents she told me about were for my benefit, not hers. What I'm trying to say here is that when she was younger, if a male friend of her boyfriend found some pleasure in her danging feet then that was OK with her. She didn't take it any further and have those episodes lead to sex. She said she enjoyed a foot massage from her husband but think about it who doesn't enjoy a back rub or a foot massage?

This next session is going to be either very awkward or she will handle it like a professional. I think she will do the latter and handle it like the professional therapist that she is. I'm not going to take it as a signal if she comes to our session with revealing footwear. I'll be happy, but I don't believe that it means she's ready to turn herself over to me so I can worship her feet (although that would be my fantasy ). I hope I made my point here that I don't believe she's a foot slut and any confidential information she shared with me was to help me understand that I am not a pervert and there is nothing wrong with being a foot fetishist.

I was going through some of my pictures when I came across a couple of new ones of my therapist. The two bending down are from the time she was putting away some files. You saw one from that set. The other two in the flip flops is when we were outside. Don't exactly remember the occasion but I was able to get these shots.

Enjoy.

I think you should go back. Take it as a signal or not, but she didn't really have to tell you about those experiences or even the dog incident to try to convince yourself that your fetish is a normal thing. I mean, I'm no psychologist, but you don't have to be one to know that those kind of things and/or comments can get someone with a foot fetish aroused. She's teasing you, even if she doesn't want anything, just to flirt and it is nice.

Maybe nothing will happen (maybe you won't ever get her feet as you'd want), but I bet she enjoys that you "secretly" admire her and you worship her feet with your eyes everytime you're there. In any case, I think that if she was uncomfortable she wouldn't wear revealing shoes at all (and if she did, she would change them in your appointments just like last time).

So... my advice is for you to get back. She's helping you and you enjoy going to see her... whether is your issues or to kinda satisfy your fetish.

Please let us know how it turns out.

hi guys.

i don't know what to say...i feel "lost". not sad, but a little lost.

hi in therapy.

to be honest, it's everything. your post is so close to my situation. a therapist with GREAT feet , a woman as i have always wondered to meet (tall, nice looking, and with great feet !), and because of her job, we must turn our heels and let ANOTHER guy "play" with her...and her feet maybe.

Today i went to a session. I told her what i've done last week. And i told her that yesterday i saw a documentary on Tv about Chocolate. At a moment, they made a Chocolate High Heel. So i told her it was funny (i started to laugh)

So she told me, "well, it's a good idea, because this high heel can fit a woman feet and you can wait till it melts and then eat it, it's very erotic ! "

I was like : OH MY ! and at the same time i was frustrated because

1) she's tall
2) she has big and long feet with long toes
and now 3) she talks about eat the chocolate on a woman feet !

Man that's too much...i mean, in life there are coincidence...but to this point ????

That's why i feel lost. I mean...i've always dreamed to meet a woman like this. Of course i don't know her "in real life"...i only know how she behaves in the sessions.

When i finish my therapy with her, i'll surely ask her if we could meet somewhere...and who knows !

After all, we are all living on the same Earth ! There are so many reasons not to meet someone (because he's white, because he's black, because he's this or that...) why do we have to add the profession ???

I mean, how Therapists will meet people otherwise ?? If everytime they meet someone they tell him "sorry i can't because you could be a potential patient of mine" they would never meet anyone !

I feel confused...i don't want to see her pass in front of my nose (french expression). 28 years old i am...never had a girlfriend, never slept with a woman, and never have touched a woman feet.

And now this woman !....and i AGAIN have to turn the heels ??? till when ?....

MMMFEET wrote:

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Don't fall in love with your therapist. It will never work. Find a real woman. Seriously.

You're talking as if she was a virtual woman...like the ones we see on the net !

But NO ! she's for real ! she's a REAL woman. And only because of someone's job we have to forget it ?? i say no. Otherwise we would say : "well, farmers only can meet farmers, banker only can meet bankers, etc etc for the others jobs..." WHAT A WORLD IT WOULD BE !

To be obliged to turn the heels ONLY because of someone's job...what a nonsense.

It's like : "don't fall in love with your best friend, find a real woman "...come on man ! we all live on the SAME Earth, when you have the chance to meet a woman that is very close to what you've been dreaming, don't you think it would be zero to say "no, because she my therapist , or banker, or fruit vendor, or whatever the hell she is, i have to turn the heels ... AGAIN ! ...."

So ok, and next time i'll meet a woman just like her, but she would be my boss at work for example...AND THIS TIME AGAIN, i'll hear people say : "don't fall in love with your boss, find a real woman"...until when do we have to turn our heels ???

If we act like this every time we meet a woman (because of her job, because of her skin color, because because because), well, nobody will never meet nobody ! BUT in reality, people meet each other.

NZ Tony,

Almost sounds that way, doesn't it? It goes to show you that no matter where in the world women are, they love the attention men give them. In our case we tend to lean towards their beautiful feet. Others have different areas of affection. Regardless, women all over the world love the attention. That doesn't mean that all women who wear revealing foot ware would want a just anyone touching her feet, but she certainly doesn't mind the stares that come with a perfect pedicure or toes that sit there, in the open, just aching for attention.

Gorgeous! I'm really glad you're back!! I'm not sure what she thinks or whatever, but now I think you can relax and stop thinking if what you did was bad for her... I still think that she is a tease and that's why she's wearing those shoes (that and comfort, too).

So anyway... I hope you come back and keep the updates. Also bring up the fetish topic to her again, maybe something will come up.

I'll be waiting for the next update!

NZ Tony wrote:

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Cinema, I know and agree with what you're saying. Just take care to stay within whatever rules apply in your country and don't give up. Maybe like our other friend, something good could come after your therapy is finished. Good luck.

Thank you for your support.

I also do hope something good will come after my therapy. I really wanna success in at least one thing in my life.

As I said, I am relieved. She does have sexy feet and remember, she's in her mid to late 50s. My favorite shot from the last set is the third picture. I almost came when I took it. I love when a woman spreads hers toes like that. God, I want to suck on those toes! Anyway, I will continue with the updates and hopefully more pictures.

dudu2103: she does dangle a little and I may try to get close to her in the manner you suggested but not so soon. Also I won't do anything rash with respect to the stupidity I did last time. I will re-introduce my fetish at a later session, but not now.

No updates on this lovely happening?