excited to post my first question to pad.
i am a 22+ yo guy and worried about my future, for that i think i can't satisfy a woman because of my fetish. But on seeing that some of members here are married, i hope someone can throw light on how a fetishist can marry and satisfy his wife. Mere acceptance by wife cannot satisfy her and produce children, that's my point.

thanks in advance. please inform if i am too innocent to forum.

My man, if you have fingers, a tongue, and of course a cock, you are 99.5% equipped to satisfy a woman.

That's why I allowed the .5% as a "fudge factor". It baffles me that a guy can be bad in bed. In anycase, a little (or a lot of) practice and fine tune your methods.

Or sure fire way......eat her pussy and watch for the hips to buck.  Reintensify your eating.  Repeat until she gives you a milk mustache.

Every woman is different. It starts with a positive attitude and a true desire to please. It then involves open and honest communication. It then incorporates trial and error, you like that babe? How's this FEEL? Show me you like it! Go slow, feel her body move, as the other's stated, it probably should start with the hands and fingers, then you go to the mouth with kisses, licks, sucking and hot breathing, then when you are both getting nice and warmed up and excited finish the show with the grand finale and the big bang. There are many books out there, many videos, that will show you a variety of positions and angles in which to move and adjust your body and hers. The missionary position, the most basic one, can be great if you can swing her feet up, and enjoy their taste and smell as you conclude that night's performance. With a willing partner, don't be affraid to talk and share, and critique what was good and what wasn't! HOPE THAT HELPS! NOW GO PRACTICE, PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT YOU KNOW!

I think what Crapenstein meant is that assuming those tools are their, you're pretty well off even if you haven't developed the skill set to use them in an effective way yet. I mean, in the same vein, if you've got a hammer, a screwdriver and a set of vice-grips, you can deal with a lot of mundane problems. But it sure doesn't make you a master carpenter or mechanic or anything.