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SoleReaver21 Joined: 2002-04-21 Posts: 162 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
i'm not necessarily after a "cure" for it but i sit back sometimes and wonder how my life would've been different had i not had this gift/curse. I'm finding myself these days making decisions about what to do each night and invariably i do whatever i deem the most likey to end up with some feet in my mouth. | ||
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CanadaFtFreak Joined: 2000-09-20 Posts: 628 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I dont want to get all serious here, but what you're describing does sound like a full blown fetish - most of us just technically have "partialism" - meaning we like feet, but we like/love the woman they are attached too first.
If you truly "can't get off on the same pair of feet more than 3 or 4 times" then you might want to consider talking with a therapist. If your sexual preference/desire is stopping you from having meaningful relationships, it might be time to try to get some help. | ||
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SoleReaver21 wrote:life imprisonment is the best cure i have heard of for those sick f*cks out there who give us a bad name. for the rest us, well as long as we don't get as bad as those guys in the news, then i guess it's perfectly legal. just don't be a freak like them and you'll be alright IMO | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
CanadaFtFreak wrote: A+ 100/100 This is all the advice you need, right here. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
you could argue that he's normal for not wanting the same pair of feet, animals don't stick with the same animal, they spread their seed around
maybe it's not normal to get tired of the same girl after only 3 or 4 times, but after several years how do you not get tired of the same thing? if you ate your favorite food every day, wouldn't you want something different after awhile? for whatever reason society has brainwashed people into thinking that you have to get married and be with one person the rest of your life my parents have been together for more than 30 years and seemingly have a good relationship, i still say marriage is not natural you know what they say, for every hot chick out there, there is some guy tired of having sex with her | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: Don't penguins mate for life with just one partner? And when you truly love someone, you never get tired of them. I'm in total agreeance with CFF. If it's starting to hinder his life, maybe he does need to seek professional help. I mean, you do need balance in life. | ||
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote:as in variety? or sitting on one side of the see-saw the whole time? i think wanocki is exactly right. just most people hate to face facts | ||
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nmonte Joined: 2006-04-10 Posts: 161 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SoleReaver21 wrote:I don't think you should make yourself want to get married. There's a difference between wanting to have a monogamous relationship and thinking that you're SUPPOSED to have a monogamous relationship. Society puts pressure on people to be monogamous, but people can function in either mono or polyamorous situations. Problems occur when you feel internal conflict about your sexuality and your relationship status. Counseling/therapy ain't gonna transform you. Only you can change you. You have to find out what you really want and then be at peace with it. If that means you're single your whole life, cool. If it means you work at relationships and get married, cool. Counseling/therapy can help you find equilibrium by giving you perspective on your thoughts and behavior. In my opinion, the worst thing you can do is carry internal conflict into a relationship. Another bad thing to do is lie to yourself and pretend you can be faithful and then end up cheating on your partner/wife ... that's bullshit. Also it sounds like your dilemma is not specific to your foot fetish. Many people have the same challenges with other sexual proclivities (.i.e. they don't want to sleep with the same person more than twice) If you focus on your foot fetish as the source of the problem your innocent preference can become a HUGE source of shame. And shame is not good. Shame will fuk you up royally. Just my thoughts man. Peace. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote: i don't know about penguins, and that's just one animal never getting tired of somebody only happens in the movies, sooner or later a person is going to want to feel another person | ||
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mojofoot13 Joined: 2002-09-03 Posts: 1,053 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I like reading, long walks on the beach, holding hands, cheeseburgers, and oh yea the female foot. Wish I could find a cure for the long walks on the beach though!
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
TylerFeetCore wrote: No, I'm talking about him being able to balance out his daily life with his love of feet WITHOUT having to resort to the type of relationships/behavior that junior high school boys resort to. That's all.
So...how do you explain all the married couples that have been together for so many years? Are they all just anomalies or they're all just faking it? | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
they are lying to themselves if they claim they don't strongly desire other people, doesn't mean they love their spouse any less
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: I have to respectfully disagree with that. I think you're being a bit subjective and you're basing your opinion on personal experience/past dissapointments. | ||
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CanadaFtFreak Joined: 2000-09-20 Posts: 628 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
This is sort of drifting off topic.
I think the original issue is: if you are ALL about the feet - ie. nothing else, no care about the company or personality of the person they belong to, there's a problem. Im one of the most open minded people you'll ever meet - and hey, if you ENJOY only being into feet, and you TRULY dont care about having any relationships, etc - then go for it. The very fact the OP is posting to this board & saying "anyone heard of a foot fetish cure" makes me think he wants more than just random feet for the rest of his life. Saying " I'm finding myself these days making decisions about what to do each night and invariably i do whatever i deem the most likey to end up with some feet in my mouth" makes me think this is a much deeper seeded issue than most of us "foot guys" have. Also dont forget that while it may be cool now, while you're young, what happens when you're 50? 60? 70? You think 20 year old girls are going to be happy to let you get off on their feet? Sounds like a very difficult path to follow.... | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Again, CFF....nailed it on the head.
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote: i think you're living in some sort of fantasy world if you think married people will only desire one person for the rest of their lives i've never been married so no i am not speaking from experience or disappointments, i'm just using logic, there is nothing natural about being legally binded to another person if you're married, just because you love them more than anything now doesn't mean you will down the road | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
CanadaFtFreak wrote: money buys everything but i do agree there is something wrong if you only care about feet | ||
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CanadaFtFreak Joined: 2000-09-20 Posts: 628 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: hehehe. :P Wanocki wrote: Well, and thats my only point. Like I said, I have no issue with anyone doing anything consentual, but if you come to a foot fetish board & ask if anyone has a "cure" then obviously you're not 100% happy with your current MO. If you are, well then more power to you, but I just wanted to give a little serious advice before people started joking about things & perhaps missing the point of the OP. | ||
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VScoverBanned Joined: 2008-11-07 Posts: 111 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Well when my father found out I had a foot fetish he sent me a big email detailing cognitive behavioural therapy; which he said could cure me. FWIW I told him that I loved being a freak and had no intention of seeking a "cure" >=D .
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CanadaFtFreak Joined: 2000-09-20 Posts: 628 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
VScoverBanned wrote: he sent you an EMAIL? Dude, that is cold. | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: Out of curiosity, how old are you? | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
just turned 26
how old are you? | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
31.
So you're still fairly young....gotcha. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
i'm wise beyond my years
is that you in the avatar? | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I highly doubt that. You come off as very juvenile.
No, that's Liz Phair. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
haha yeah i am sure you want to think that you would probably lose sleep if you knew your man was craving other women, or that he will some day the truth hurts | ||
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
VScoverBanned wrote:HOLY WOW dude! I could imagine my dad also being highly unreceptive. Thank god I have kept this very tight-lipped and in the closet like my creepy little secret. I totally feel for ya bro and I like what you have told your dad! Heck it really makes me feel good to embrace the fact that I am a freak and sort of getting that liberating high that you got by telling your dad. I also get this high by admitting your quoted truth-hood to others who judge my fetish and therefore let them know that I am a freak so they can't derive quite as much pleasure by calling me one before I call myself one LOL Most normal people think ima freak fer sure and even alot of freaky people think ima freak too. You should hear what some foot fetish brethren even here amongst us think of me in the normalcy department LOL Even they point the finger at me like ima big time freak (while also pointing 3 fingers back at themselves unfortunately | ||
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote:you don't have to worry wanocki, that dude is a dude and posts fake female celeb avatars in hopes that men will think he is a woman and hit on him via pm. people sometimes get their rocks off in ultra weird ways in this forum. | ||
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VScoverBanned Joined: 2008-11-07 Posts: 111 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
CanadaFtFreak wrote:He lives overseas, he's actually a decent guy and was just trying to help. As above he's fairly good about it, he just thought that it was an illness at first and I had to convince him otherwise . And yes Tyler, we all know you're the freakiest freak on the Mousepad(if not in the entire FF community) . | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: wanocki, you have a very juvenile mentality. i'm sorry, but it's true. you're probably a pretty capable and confident guy, but this mentality you have is really unnerving. anyway, i hope you find a nice girl that you'll be able to spend time with and who'll convince you that you don't need to stray. | ||
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Archie Spunker Joined: 2008-10-12 Posts: 236 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
This thread makes Elmo sad.
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote: i understand why you would think this, society has brainwashed most people into thinking they have to get married and spend the rest of their life with one person especially as a woman, women don't age like a fine wine, if they don't have that husband by 40 there is a good chance they will be alone the rest of their life it's different for men, we can get quality women at any age many men with power and money are married, few of them only have sex with their wife
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Archie Spunker Joined: 2008-10-12 Posts: 236 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: I'm sorry man.... I swore up and down I was gonna stay out of this one, but when I read that, my jaw dropped open and an almost involuntary Scooby Doo-like "HUH?!?" escaped from my throat. I don't know what kind of women you guys got over in the 'Burgh, but dood.... where I live there is just way too much variety across the board to make a blanket statement. For instance, I've noticed Asian women in particular tend to age very well. I've seen Filipino GMILF's well into their 60s with skin like peaches who made me stop dead in my tracks. It's like they have this inner glow that can only be attributed to good living. (and they know it too, which makes it ever sexier) It all comes down to the individual and how well they choose to take care of themselves. Give me a 65-y.o. Chinese sugarmom who practices yoga and works in her garden (barefoot, of course) any day over some frazzled, embittered divorcee with a chip on her shoulder who smokes a carton of Basics a day and eats Big Macs like Tic-Tacs. Just my personal preference. Fuck, I've lived in places where practically ALL the women were like that, so it might just be a matter of your environment. The year I spent stationed in a small fishing town in northern Oregon was an absolute nightmare for Mr. Winky. It's like every woman I talked to had either three ex-husbands, three kids or three teeth!
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: Is there statistical proof of this or are you just coming up with this out of your ass? I'm going to again say that you're still young and have a lot to learn. It's OK. When I was your age, I thought I knew everything too. If you don't want to settle down and marry, more power to ya. But I do sincerely hope you find SOMEONE special. | ||
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote:don't fault the kid for being observant. all you have to do is look around in real life to realize these generalisms. heck, if the basement prevents one from getting out in real life, one could even watch TV and movies to ascertain the same thing. here's how it goes: "generally speaking, a woman's value will depreciate with age where-as a man's value will appreciate with age." this does not include the exceptions to the rule. this is just in general. that underlying principle is the basis for wanocki's insightful assertions. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote: do i really have to provide proof that women get worse looking with age and men with money easily get women? you seriously need me to prove that? and i hope you find someone special, a man that ignores his natural instincts is indeed special
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: I'm sorry man.... I swore up and down I was gonna stay out of this one, but when I read that, my jaw dropped open and an almost involuntary Scooby Doo-like "HUH?!?" escaped from my throat. I don't know what kind of women you guys got over in the 'Burgh, but dood.... where I live there is just way too much variety across the board to make a blanket statement. For instance, I've noticed Asian women in particular tend to age very well. I've seen Filipino GMILF's well into their 60s with skin like peaches who made me stop dead in my tracks. It's like they have this inner glow that can only be attributed to good living. (and they know it too, which makes it ever sexier) It all comes down to the individual and how well they choose to take care of themselves. Give me a 65-y.o. Chinese sugarmom who practices yoga and works in her garden (barefoot, of course) any day over some frazzled, embittered divorcee with a chip on her shoulder who smokes a carton of Basics a day and eats Big Macs like Tic-Tacs. Just my personal preference. Fuck, I've lived in places where practically ALL the women were like that, so it might just be a matter of your environment. The year I spent stationed in a small fishing town in northern Oregon was an absolute nightmare for Mr. Winky. It's like every woman I talked to had either three ex-husbands, three kids or three teeth! sorry bro but if you're into 65 year old women, you are in the minority give me the chicks in college, that's when they peak in appearance imo | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
TylerFeetCore wrote: exactly in general this is how it works in life, why do chicks consider this offensive? | ||
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Archie Spunker Joined: 2008-10-12 Posts: 236 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Ya got me on that one, man. I do have some pretty eccentric tastes in women!
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TylerFeetCore Joined: 2006-01-03 Posts: 2,831 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote:just think about it for a sec. wouldn't you be pissed if your value depreciated w/age and the opposite sex only increased in value w/age. imagine if we males were more attracted to money than say the woman or her looks. now imagine that the women who's money that we desired were generally spending their money on younger men to be with them. now imagine how spiteful you would feel about this as you aged (& became uglier) and you found that less and less of their money was being spent on you. do you see their point now? put yourself in the shoes of an aging hag | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: Neither one of you (Tyler & Wanocki) are capable of discussing this in an adult manner without resorting to using chauvinistic ideals & childish name-calling. So, I'm going to sit back and watch both of you discuss this like a couple of junior high school boys that just discovered what a vagina does. | ||
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Wanocki Joined: 2008-01-04 Posts: 927 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
SuperFizzyLizzy wrote: get off your high horse, twinkle toes you are the one that started the insults by dismissing my views as "juvenile" because of my age and you basically called me stupid the fact of the matter is you are offended by the truth, you don't want to believe that your man is desiring other women and somehow you are under the delusion that women get better with age and that money doesn't matter keep thinking that i'm wrong and continue to live in denial, it will help you sleep much better at night i'm curious why are you here on a male jerkoff forum? | ||
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: You are so cute with your "He-Man Wimmin Hater" mentality. I just want to pinch your cheeks. Honestly, they are very juvenile for your age. You are a grown man and you shouldn't be thinking that women are beneath you and that you're superior to them and that if you have a wad of cash, you're the most desirable thing on Earth. None of these are productive or healthy ideals. And you do realize that men are at their sexual peak at 18-20 and that women peak around 30, right? Or is that another lie that society has told? You are the very textbook definition of bitter child. You have the mentality & viewpoint of someone who's gone through some kind of trauma. And it's really sad & disturbing to me that you actually think like this. And this isn't about who's right & who's wrong...this has become more about how behind the times your views are. You're an anachronism. Just how bad is your self-esteem that you have to have these views? I'm not trying to slam you, I'm just being honest and showing a bit of concern. Anyway, I'm on here because my darling boy has a thing for my size 9's, so I decided to see what the fuss was about. And to see just why some guys are into feet. Curiosity, basically. | ||
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CanadaFtFreak Joined: 2000-09-20 Posts: 628 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: This is a jerk off forum?? I thought it was a place to find out about mice! True story: A couple of years ago I was surfing the pad at work (I know I shouldnt, but Im the boss, so no big deal). Anyway, a female employee comes into my office. I am away from my desk at my files & she sees the Alert title page up on my computer and says "Wow, they have information on everything on the internet! Who would have thought - a page to alert you of mouse infestations!" Anyway, just trying to lighten the mood. Lizzy/Wanocki/Tyler - you folks arent going to see eye to eye on this issue - the name calling isnt helping anyone - just drop it & move on to more pleasurable threads Just my 2c of course, if not, well by all means, flame away. :P
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SuperFizzyLizzy Joined: 2006-10-17 Posts: 995 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
That's a cute story.
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