ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
MY EXPERIENCE & OBSERVATION!!! Living 35 years with a strong foot fetish has given me lots of experience. I will put it to you like this. I strongly believe that 1 out of every 5 guys on this planet has a foot fetish, 20%, some hide it, some are open about it, but there you have it! I also strongly believe that 1 out of every 3 women, enjoys foot play, foot attention, foot fetishists a lot, 33%. For women it really comes down to this, how do they feel about their own feet, are they pretty to them? If they have the mind set that their own feet are cute, they will appreciate attention to that body part, my feet are cute he should kiss them. Many women are wired in their sub -conscious as pleasers, meaning that they like to keep their partner, man or woman happy. They like to see them enjoying themselves, and if their own body or body part is pleasing a partner that in itself excites them. So he likes my feet, that's cool, he is getting excited by me! The first third of women thinks feet are gross and disgusting, and has no clue that their feet can be sexy. The second third of women just does not like the way touching or licking or kissing their feet feels. Either it tickles too much, their feet are sensitive, or it just makes them squeamish, yuck! Now, the final third is the gold mine! A girl who is a pleaser, and thinks her own feet are cute, she just has to be shown what she needs and what has been missing from her sexual life! So look around that class of yours, that office where you work, any group situation. Are there 12 girls around? Then 4 of them are dying to meet a great foot guy like you! Are there 30 girls around? Then there are 10 girls needing some foot play and foot attention! I will repeat, and promise you, 33% of females on this planet loves foot guys and girls!!! | ||
NZ Tony Joined: 2007-11-28 Posts: 1,868 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Where was this experience gained? I would suggest that this is actually country-specific, and maybe also culture-specific, and I seriously doubt that your observation would hold true here. Not wishing to be disrespectful, just differing in opinion here.
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
This is my theory and belief and I throw it out there for discussion and debate. My experience is isolated to the UNITED STATES. Our country, and New York particularly is the largest melting pot in the world. Every country, every ethnicity is represented here, in my city of 8 million people. I have dated and gone out with and befriended women from all over the world including SOUTH AMERICA, ENGLAND, AFRICA, AUSTRALIA, CHINA, JAPAN, ISRAEL, MEXICO, ITALY, FRANCE, SPAIN, and countless more. I therefore think I can speak with some real world knowledge and I am not some small town blowhard! Of course that doesn't make me right, it just gives me a good solid base of knowledge. Does that answer your question? What is your theory on this, if you had to really break it down?
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NZ Tony Joined: 2007-11-28 Posts: 1,868 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Maybe for that exact reason (what you say about NY) your figures will be correct there. You would find that there's not that same diversity here, nor the acceptance of things outside of the 'norm' that the level of diversity you mention brings. I really couldn't put figures to it the way you have as I haven't had the experience with the large sample of women you have, but within the limits of my experience I can tell you that there are very few guys here who would have a foot fetish, those that do are generally (as I am) from families who have migrated here in the last generation or have themselves come here from overseas, and that most women, possibly as a result of what they've learnt in their young years, consider their feet to be ugly and anyone who looks at them favourably is some kind of creepy freak. That is not to say they can't be converted though!
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actionh0tdog Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 45 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
NZ Tony wrote:in creepyville, his numbers also do not hold true. no disrespect intended with this either, but creepyville tends to be in more places than we think. if we use countless maniacal internet foot fetish forum posts as a percentage of measure, we can derive our own math and apply our conclusions to real life acreage. | ||
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Gentlemen, all I can tell you is life is like poker & soccer, it is more full of bluffing, lies, deceit, hustle, craftiness and gamesmanship then you will ever know. We project our own fear on those of us around us. We see ourselves as different from the rest, as different from the norm, so we project that on to our little world, and then make excuses. People don't succeeed, because they fail before they start!!!! They make excuses, oh my culture doesn't accept this, women here are different, I live in creepyville...everyone is going to laugh at me, point at me, single me out! I am sorry guys, you may think me a pompass jerk, you may think me crazy, but the only thing getting in your way is you!!! Think of foot fetish around the globe as the game of SOCCER. Does cultural difference, size, shape, ethnicity, religion, creepiness, testosterone, have anything to do with how the game is played? Can everyone play this game. There are differences, how come everyone can play this game? Do they play this game in NEW ZEALAND? YES THEY DO! Do they play this game in CHINA, JAPAN, ENGLAND, ISRAEL, AUSTRALIA, CREEPYVILLE? YES THEY DO! They can all kick the ball! The women in those countries all have feet too! THE FOOT FETISH GAME can be played in ALL these places too!!! ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME WITH THIS? STOP MAKING EXCUSES! STOP BEING SCARED? So they laughed at me, so what??? THEY WILL BE SECRETLY JEALOUS OF YOU! THEY ARE BLUFFING!!! PLAY AND BEAT THOSE KEEPING YOU DOWN, AND BEAT THEM DOWN!!! BEST WISHES, DAVE
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Whogirl123 Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 174 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I think it's possible that because you live in New York things are a little more open, or accepted. I know a lot of women will do things for their man, without being into whatever it is to begin with. Also I think that maybe your sucess with girls and feet is personal to you, and maybe everyone else's is different. I know a couple of girls, 2 others in real life, other than myself, who like feet but to compare that to the Tons of girls I know who absolutely hate them... It's ridiculous. I think your statistic may or may not be factual, but I think the chances of a statistic that you made up off the top off your head is more likely false than true... Sorry but that's how I see it. And take into consideration there are a lot of places that are totally intolerant of everything and anything... The small town.
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
The purpose of this thread is not to piss people off, or to come off as a big stupid know-it all. It is to challenge people to open up their minds, maybe look at things a little differently, have self belief and confidence, and move foward. There is no greater proof than the internet to see how many boards, chats, sites, clips are dedicated to foot fetishism. Scanning the members list are tons of secretly hiding men, women, boys and girls from small towns, repressed countries, religious and intollerant locales. They hide, therefore our conclusion is they don't exist. WHOGIRL, I challenge you with my made up off the top of my head statistic, that if you know 30 females pretty well, I will almost guarantee you that TEN of them would- either- please their partner with their feet because their partner liked it, and they want to please that person, that they never knew their feet could give them so much pleasure, nobody showed them, taught them, ( there are more nerve endings in the feet than anywhere else, and reflexology works and is proven ), that really enjoy foot attention- massages, kissing, licking of their feet, they just don't want to talk about it because they don't want to seem weird or crazy or perverted, all these societal pressures. I have also visited many, many small towns in my lifetime through work travel, and my big, big discovery is that girls are girls, and a little knowledge and patience goes a long way, to break intollerance. WHOGIRL, you of all people should agree INTOLLERANCE= IGNORANCE!!!! SORRY, CASE CLOSED!
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communismcommunist Joined: 2004-08-29 Posts: 1,156 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
I agree with your principle dude = people should just man up and embrace their inner fetishist, and stop worrying so much. People really don't give that much of a shit providing you approach things in the right (i.e none weird) way.
However the scientist inside me does cringe with your use of figures and statistics. Unless data has come from a randomised controlled double blinded study I don't accept it. I know what you are trying to get at though. Good work man. More people (myself included) should be more positive about themselves. At the end of the day, we should all take a risk and stop hiding things. As Wayne Gretzky said "You miss 100% of the shots you never take..." | ||
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Thanks man! That WAYNE GRETZKY quote is one of my all time very favorites! Any argument with statistics or without can and always will be challenged. Mine are not scientific, just based on a strong feel and experience. I deliberately used them because by doing so it tends to illicit responses. I have also learned through experience, that it is not only the message that matters, it is who delivers it, in what style and how. By making strong statements I get strong responses, as opposed to lurkers, and hiders. So your scientific mind may appreciate that this was totally calculated! Rush Limbaugh, Pat Robertson, Howard Stern, Don Imus, Shaun Hannity, all have strong media followings because they make strong statements, often controversial, but like them or hate them people listen! I wanted to get some people to listen! I am glad that you agree with the total point of this exercise, which is TAKE RISKS, TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE, & LIVE LONG AND PROSPER!
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Crapenstein Joined: 2005-08-29 Posts: 1,017 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Iread an article on DETAILS magazine years ago where the reporter went out to fetish clubs and report on them first hand. Bar none her experience was that foot fetish ruled the scene. She was invited by one of the hosts of a party to partake in some foot activity and she claimed that she was an instant fan. She loved the attention and the fact that is was a relatively safe fetish.
I agree with some of your points ROYALS to the extent that people may be introduced to the foot world an become fans of such. Of the last two GF's I had one had already been introduced to foot play while the other was intriduced to it by myself. They were both fond of it and both indicated at one point that it intensified their O-gasm. It's personal experience for me but I find that if someone is not uber-conservative in bed they can end up liking an activity they have not tried before. Also, I have talked to buddies about the subject casually and so far all have indicated that they are into it, ranging from mild to wild. I just recently found out that a co-worker is into toes. I tend to think there is no rhyme or reason to it all. It's just how much fun in bed a person is willing to have. | ||
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Joseph, as usual for you, very well stated and explained. I am very glad that you agree with me at least in part, that means a lot. THANKS!
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Crapenstein Joined: 2005-08-29 Posts: 1,017 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
No problem ROYALS. I too value your level headed opinions, findings, and comments.
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Whogirl123 Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 174 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
communismcommunist wrote: I am not condemning your idea in any way, Royals, But I agree with CC on this about where your data comes from, to be a real statistic it would need a control and different variables... I also agree more people should be more positive, I know a lot of the people I know are aware of my foot fetish, I actually went around campus and asked girls wearing ballet flats if I could see their feet, just cause for the hell of it... out of all the people I asked most just giggled and said no and we went to a different topic no problem, two said yes... I did this all day... | ||
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
WHOGIRL I love that! I, WAY BACK IN THE DAY, back in College, held Ms Pretty Foot contests, and told the winner that I would buy her a pair of shoes. This was great for many reasons. I got a lot of girls to participate. I got to see a lot of feet, had a big goof doing this. I got to take the winner shoe shopping. I watched her try on at least 6 pairs of shoes for me. I wound up dating at least two of the winners. Ask the girls if you could take pictures of their feet, tell them it is for an anatomy class you have. The fact that you are a cute girl yourself, you will be able to pull it off without the creep factor. Just keep trying and asking! I love your attitude and positivity, don't lose that, itwill serve you very well!
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ROYALS22262 wrote:while i agree in principle that we as foot fetish brethren need to keep a positive upbeat attitude, i do believe it can be dangerous if we set the bar too high by creating false hope and resting our chances on statistics which were created arbitrarily. we have enough problems with wackjobs already. imagine if every one of those disturbed individuals now thought they'd get a 90% positive response from female strangers if they just approached them and started asking for feet. obviously that last example is a bit of a stretch, but how far is too far when it comes to reconciling reality with delusions of grandjure? i believe it is best to take a sensible approach when dealing with people's hopes and ambitions. would suck to see a bunch of shattered dreams of alot of real life foot men who were led to believe that women are gonna be 33% receptive to their foot fetish advances if they would only try. i've seen guys in bars & nightclubs fail miserably time after time again all in the name of false hope. the issue should not be focused on fooling ourselves into positive statistics, but rather learning the means to convince women to be receptive of our fetishes through proper introduction. i value the cause of positive thinking as it helps alot, but false hope is a dangerous thing that bites in the but when we aren't too careful. keep the dream alive fellas! | ||
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Just to let you all know, that when I was asking the girls around campus to see their feet, I went about it in the most appropriate way I could. I would say things like "I know this may seem random, But I'm a Foot Model, and I was wondering if I could see your feet, to compare them or get new polish ideas or whatever." Like I said the end result was only two girls showed my theirs, but they showed me their feet in all different angles. And after they showed them, I would be all like "turn your foot a little... Hmmm... You could probably foot model too!"
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
WHOGIRL, By asking you wound up seeing more than if you didn't ask at all. See if they will let you take pictures? Tell them it is for a class project, or it is part of your work. I used to tell people I worked for a shoe company, which I did for a little while. You explain the 5 parts of an athletic shoe, sneaker, trainer, to people, and how they are designed. U O M I, like you owe me, stands for UPPER - top of the shoe, OUTER SOLE, MID SOLE, INNER SOLE, and then the HEEL CAP. I would get girls to show me their athletic footwear all the time, reviewing this. You also show them the sole of the shoe, the bottom, and show them where it is worn the most, and that shows what kind of stride they have. Most people walk, run, inwardly, the wear is mostly on the inner edge of the bottom sole. That is called pronation. Any way it is a great way to get shoes off, get a look at a sexy foot, and a little shoe smell too!!!
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ROYALS22262 wrote:I like your thinkin, it makes them feel calm and secure enough to bare those soles for us! Some of my favorite kinds of feet in the world have come from just everyday-type women who aren't foot models or anything like that. There is alot to be admired about a female foot in her natural state... no pressure, no fake shows, or anything... she is just showing her feet just to show them as opposed to showing them off like a pageant or something. It eliminates the fakeness we see in alot of other crap out there. I really like your style and ideas, seize the day boys!! :D | ||
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ROYALS22262 Joined: 2003-01-24 Posts: 420 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Thank you for the kind words and support. All I am trying to do here is give some well meaning advice to younger dudes. It was advice given to me, when I was scared, paranoid, and thought I was some creepy freak. Just don't be affraid of who you are! Don't be affraid of what you like! You are not weird! There are way more people just like you than you think! Approach this foot fetishism stigma, with maturity, an open mind, confidence and a good sense of humor and creativity! So what that I like the feet of a woman, women are beautiful, every part of them is beautiful and worthy of attention! The ones laughing will be secretly jealous of you! Women, for the most part are receptive of positive attention. Be funny, be a goof ball, think Vince Vaughn, Matthew McConaughy, silly, charming, creative. Watch the WEDDING CRASHERS MOVIE, it gives you a good idea how to better B.S. women, tell them what they want to hear, be smoothe, and have more fun!
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Whogirl123 Joined: 0000-00-00 Posts: 174 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
 Actually in my asking around I might have found a possibly girl to be in my pictures with me!!! She said she was cool, and she'd do it and that she was totally not kidding... I really hope she was totally not kidding!!!!
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most people either think feet are disgusting or just the body part we walk on
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sk8vapor Joined: 2003-11-04 Posts: 726 Files: 0 Thanked: 0 Downloaded: 0 Uploaded: 0 |
Wanocki wrote: Exactly. I find that the chicks who won't tolerate foot fetish, are the chicks who think feet in general are disgusting. It's not necessarily solely the fact of having their feet licked or smelled is disgusting, it's the fact that they just don't like feet period, and the notion of anyone liking feet (licking, smelling, etc.) is disgusting. Chicks who just consider feet to be another body part typically won't mind having attention paid to their feet, as long as the guy pays attention to the rest of her as well as wanocki stated. Then again in regards to the chicks who see feet as just another body part, if the guy portrays the idea of liking feet as being weird (such as starting off with "I know this sounds weird," or "I know this is different," etc.) as mentioned before in other threads, then the girl will indeed be more inclined to think it's weird, since you yourself are acknowledging the fact that it's weird and different, rather than just being confident and straight up with it. If you act like it's a problem, then it will be seen as a problem. | ||
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